One thing that perhaps drove Masters absolutely bonkers about me is how secretive I am about myself.
But it always came in handy, when things turned bad, yes Estrella was attacked but the person behind the screen? Never.
It’s something I’d recommend to all girls and boys and Mistresses and Masters. Don’t tell people your real name for as long as you can. If it’s meant to be, it will come out somehow. But I’ve met so many people who regret telling their RL info, and not-a-one that regrets concealing it.
There are a grand total of two people who know my actual name in SL. Well at least two that I have told directly, and both was by accident (stupid email).
So imagine my surprise when I’ve discovered someone searched this to find my blog, “kay… estrella canadeo”. The dots of course hide the rest of it, but someone actually used my real name to find my blog!
Now the two people who know my name are two people that I trust full-heartedly not to tell anyone and certainly wouldn’t look me up that way. But I’m not entirely sure they’d not accidentally mention it to someone else offhandedly who may have done the same… and somewhere down the road you find someone who really wants to figure out who I am for what ever reason they have.
Or someone is a good guesser. I don’t really know.
But what I do know is this… someone here is crossing a line and I don’t really care what their intentions are. Leave me be. I’ll say this only once; I choose who gets close to me in real life-no one else.











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July 5, 2008 at 8:30 am
Udge
Estrella, FWIW I wouldn’t be too worried. It may be that your RL name is in the HTML header code somewhere (unlikely, but do check: “View page source” and read carefully). More likely is that the search engine algorithm got lucky: “estrella canadeo” probably occurs a dozen or more times on various posts, so it just ignored the rest of the request and presented the first page of the blog.
September 21, 2008 at 6:46 pm
pet
I think it’s smart to keep your real name private and those on SL who try to manipulate and cajole, especially playing the “master card” are really overstepping their SL bounds. If a master wants to own a girl outside of SL, then he should actually own her outside of SL, instead of trying to micromanage her from a distance. My opinion.